I was directed to the following blog. In Peru we live in a developing nation. Lima would be developed, the jungles and sierras are undeveloped, and other places are somewhere in between. So not everything in the article is directly applicable to Peru, but I find much of what is written to be true of where we are living. In the article the author is trying to share what he believes to be the truth of village life. In the beginning he speaks about the idea of “it takes a village” to raise a child. His findings are pretty consistent with my own, and the truth is that it is better if parents raise a child. It is just one of his insights. Click the paragraph below to go to the full article on the blog Hare Translation Journey.
For various reasons throughout my life I have heard people talking about the virtues of “village life.” I generally do not say much on these subjects, as they tend to be a bit touchy, and to be honest, I did not have a lot to say. However, I realized that after living for a while in an African village, I can offer some facts regarding village life that most people would not know. My goal is not confrontation in this blog, but just information. As you are making decisions regarding your family, raising your kids, and how you counsel others, I hope you will find this information helpful. . . .
A little topography of Curahuasi. I copied this from our walk today up to the Mirador. I measured the difference in altitude from the canyon vista to the riverbed. 4430 feet! And it is practically straight down. When we first moved here, I could barely stand to watch my kids get within 10 feet of the edge. Now I barely blink when they lean to look over it. Below a shot of Allison getting low to buy our vegetables at the Sunday afternoon market. For those of us with back issues, shopping is a little less easy in Curahuasi.
I was in the hospital to see a patient who is hospitalized this morning. She is an interesting case, being one month past the delivery of her daughter, with an overwhelming parasite infection that she probably had for her entire pregnancy. She came in very malnourished and dehydrated. She has responded well to anti-parasite medicine and will likely go home early next week. But the case I would like to talk about is a young man I saw over several days last week. First he presented to me in the emergency room for chronic abdominal pain. He has already had one abdominal operation for gallbladder pain. It is quite rare for young 25 year old men to have already had an abdominal surgery, although it can happen. When I spoke with him and examined him he gave me no real reasons for concern, but he was very concerned. I did lab work as well as an ultrasound of the abdomen and it all came back normal. Because he was so concerned and had already received treatment for gastritis, I decided to proceed with an endoscopic exam of his stomach. The exam was normal. Because of his worry I asked him to see our psychologist. When I walked into my office this morning I found his chart on my desk with the following note.
The psychologist confirmed that much of what he may be dealing with is stress related. This is a young man who should be in the prime of his health, feeling invincible physically, who because of family violence in his past now is always with stomach pain which is most likely a manifestation of chronic stress and anxiety. I see so many young men in my clinic who come with vague complaints of abdominal pain. They are convinced that something is very wrong. I need to remember that family violence is endemic in our area. Almost everyone is abused, and even though in some ways it is socially acceptable, the people carry those psychological scars with them into adulthood. And I need to be sure to not miss the classic illness that cause abdominal pain while remembering that there are illnesses of stress caused by abuse that are not so easily cured.